Kitten LeFemme is a sex writer and educator living in Chicago. She has written for UR Chicago, Poolboy magazine and is a weekly
contributor to lovelulumae.blogspot.com.
A list of my favorite sex blogs and why, in 2009, they were hotter than ever.
1) www.sugarbutch.net
Sinclair Smith has created a truly unique and truly sexy blog. A combination of gender politics, philosophy, queer theory and smut make up the content of this hot butch’s site. Smith writes about her real life experiences and in 2009 she started dating her girlfriend, and her lucky readers have gotten to read all about their naughty exploits as they explore their butch/femme and BDSM influenced relationship.
2) www.unspeakableaxe.com
Axe is a submissive, straight man living in New York City. He breaks through stereotypes surrounding what it means to be straight, masculine guy and writes about his longing to do chores for and serve his lady partners. In 2008 and early 2009, Axe was searching for a partner and his blog left the sexy and entered the sad. Six months ago, he met the lady of his dreams and his content went from interesting to sexy to really fucking hot (literally. She put a pepper in his cock).
3) http://belledejour-uk.blogspot.com/
Belle’s blog made news earlier in the decade, when she began writing about her day to day life as an escort in the United Kingdom. The blog led to a book, Diary of an Unlikely Call Girl, which led to a television series, Secret Diary of a Call Girl, and the blog had a long lull. Belle has long since ceased working as an escort, but her blog was bigger than ever in the later part of 2009 because she decided to no longer be anonymous and came out to the British press as an accomplished scientific researcher. Belle’s posts about her clients are funny and sexy but the guts that it took to come out, deal with the subsequent press frenzy and dispel myths about sex workers is really hot.
4) http://deviantdyke.blogspot.com
Author DeDe Delynn combines photos with her beautiful writing to create erotica that is as luscious as the sex she is writing about. Her short stories and poetry spin tales of desire that feel so real that you can practically smell the sweat on the lovers’ skin. In 2008, Delynn’s writing was great; this year she seems to have tapped into her voice and has written pieces that leave the reader clutching the mouse (or um, other things). Additionally, she writes about hot, lusty, sexy dyke sex – proving that queer women can have dirty sex, too.
5) www.luriddigs.com
I didn’t discover this blog until 2009, and it gets my award for best discovery of the year. A photo blog with commentary from a team of sassy writers, Lurid Digs posts photos of amateur, male nudes (mostly solo) – think the kind of photo you would see in a M4M Casual Encounters ad – and critiques it. The critique is not of the model, however. It is of the décor. And it is hysterical.
6) www.early2rise.net
New to the web in 2009, Early to Rise is the boy blog created by Early to Bed, a feminist owned and run sex toy store in Chicago. In addition to news about products available at Early to Bed, Early to Rise has advice, reviews and tips for dudes. The best part of the site is that there is info for all kinds of men: straight, bi, gay, cissexual and trans. The writers are clever, give some pretty solid advice (the pussy licking primer is especially good) and create a space where authentic male sexuality can be discussed.
7) www.bearsimjealousof.tumblr.com
Ok. There isn’t really a tie in with this to 2009, but I am including it in my list, because I love bears and think they deserve as much love as possible. So cute.
8) www.cutechicagoboys.com
Cute Chicago Boys isn’t an explicit sex blog, but a collection of boys that the authors have deemed to be cute, and have subsequently interviewed and photographed. This is a new site, and I get the feeling that the authors are still finding their groove, but they are off to a good start. They have a good mix of gay and straight and undecided, which makes up for the lack of variety in types of guys (we get it, hipster boys are dreamy). That said, it is an adorable concept and I am looking forward to seeking what they do with the site in 2010. Confidential to Troy S: How in the world are you available? You are gorgeous. Totes my favorite Cute Chicago Boy.
9) www.flithygorgeousthings.com
Comprised of articles, blog entries, random confessions and beautiful photographs, Filthy Gorgeous Things is a welcome addition to the Internet sex media world. Part blog, with weekly entries from contributors, and part literary magazine with monthly themed “issues, this site is undoubtedly both filthy and gorgeous. The site design alone is eye candy (hint: click on the icons on the top and bottom of the page. They bring up confessions submitted by readers. Hot.). The writing is top notch and the photos are professional, compelling and artistic. Oh, and the content is super dirty. Note: some pieces require a subscription to read them, but there is plenty of free content to keep you, er, entertained.
10) http://nattnightly.wordpress.com/
Natt Nightly is a genderfuck, transmaculine writer. He covers topics ranging from love to lust, politics to romance and everything in between. He is making the 2009 list because of an August entry; “Challenges”. In the post, he challenges sex writers to extend beyond wham-bam fucking stories and delve into more intimate territory. The post is thoughtful and sexy all at once. I hope some sex bloggers take his advice and give us even hotter material for 2010!
