Posts Tagged ‘advice’

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Life Lube: Ask Peter

February 25, 2009

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“LifeLube.org is launching a social marketing campaign directed to Chicago gay men called “How are you healthy?” Part of the multi-agency collaboration called Project CRYSP (including Howard Brown, TPAN, AFC and Center on Halsted). Maybe it’s all about eating grains and taking vitamins. Or meditating every day. Or riding your bike instead of driving. Or getting tested regularly for sexually transmitted diseases. Or having a glass of red wine with dinner. Or using substances in moderation.  We ask is that you send us your picture, and a short paragraph about one way in which you keep yourself healthy. We will run the your picture, your name, and your paragraph on the blog.” You can send that info to lifelube@gmail.com

Another thing Life Lube is doing is “Peter’s Pointers” a forum for Chicago’s gay men to anonymously ask a panel of medical professionals health questions. You send a question, and they email you in a little while. Obviously, they can’t diagnose a problem, but if you have no insurance (like me), then you at least get some info from real people. If your question is common, then they’ll post it on the site. Nice!

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Dan Savage Makes A Deal For “No On 8″

October 1, 2008


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Not to give you TMI, but Dan Savage totally wrote me a personal response to a problem I was having. It was the third time in the 15+ years of reading his column that I had written him, and let me just say that (of course) his response was wise, considerate, honest and it worked. For two weeks, all of EVERYONE can have that same experience. His October 1st column offers all Savage Love readers a guaranteed chance to get a personal response from Dan. All you have to do is support the gay marriage initiative in California and go to noonprop8.com , and “on the left-hand side of the donation page, there’s a spot where you can indicate that you’re making your donation in someone’s honor. Type in “Savage Love,” put my e-mail address—mail@savagelove.net—in the space provided, and then send me your question in another e-mail along with the e-mail confirmation that No On Prop 8 sent you after your donation cleared. The three biggest Savage Love donors over the next two weeks get their letters in the column; everyone who makes a donation of $25 or more gets a personal reply to their question from yours truly. The cutoff dates for donations that qualify for a letter in the column are October 9 for the October 16 column, and October 16 for the October 23 column.”

GO AND DONATE!

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Ask. Dr. Lou

May 12, 2008

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Dear Dr. Lou,

What would you say to a late-twenties Buffy fan who was curious about starting Firefly?

I believe that “Firefly” occupies a controversial place in the “Buffyverse”. Wait, I think they call it the “Buffysphere”. Or is it the “Buffyzone”? As a huge Buffy fan, I have floated on the periphery of this so-called Buffyverse or sphere or zone (ie: got into the comic books and “Angel”, but have avoided any conventions, chat rooms or fan/fic.) So I’m no expert, but have been geeky enough to have some Joss Whedon conversations at dinner parties and the like. From my limited study of the subject, “Firely” and it’s spin-off movie “Serenity” seem to have been embraced by some Buffy fans but rebuked by an equal number. So it certainly seems worth it to give it a try.On a personal note, I am a fan. A Sci-Fi Western about independent types flying around the galaxy defying the oppressive central government, cool. Plus the guys are hot, especially the fancy-pants doctor, and got themselves even hotter by the time the movie was shot.

Side-note, currently trying to watch “Wonderfalls” the even shorter lived series created and produced by some of the “Firefly” folks, about an underachieving young woman working at a Niagra Falls gift shop when inanimate objects start speaking to her. Thus far, a little painful, but gonna try to muscle through one disc before giving up.

–Dr. Lou

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Ask Dr. Lou

February 25, 2008
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Dear Dr. Lou,
Mac or PC?

I know there has always been talk and jokes about the differences between PC users and Mac users. Last month Mindset Media actually released results of a survey outlining differences between Mac and PC users. The study was given to 7,500 people, and the results depict Mac users as “more liberal, less modest, and more assured of their own superiority than the population at large.”

What about the MacBook Air, that’s so ahead of it’s time that it might be a useless, overpriced web browser?

So the new ultra-portable Macbook air gives up a disc drive and some speed in trade for light weight and sleek design. Will it still be useful enough for people to shell out 1800 bucks for it? Well I guess it depends on if you’re talking about “Mac People” or “Non-Mac people.” So I guess, Mac-types will think they’ll be just fine without a disc drive, and pity those PC fools who need one. Non-Mac types will roll their eyes when they’re in line waiting for a latte when they see the styled-out hipster with a Macbook Air at the coffee shop.

–Dr. Lou

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Ask Dr. Lou

January 16, 2008

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The NY Times recently published some new phrases and buzz words by Grant Barrett, who is a co-host of the public radio show “A Way With Words” and a lexicographer. Some of the words are:

bacn n.
Impersonal e-mail messages that are nearly as annoying as spam but that you have chosen to receive: alerts, newsletters, automated reminders and the like. Popularized at the PodCamp conference in Pittsburgh in August.

gorno n.
A genre of movies that are gory almost to the point of being fetishistic. A blend of “gore” and “porno.”

kinnear v.
To take a candid photograph surreptitiously, especially by holding the camera low and out of the line of sight. Coined in August by Stephanie Pearl-McPhee of the Yarn Harlot blog when she attempted to take a photograph during an encounter with the actor Greg Kinnear at an airport.

make it rain v. phr.
To drop paper money on a crowd of people, especially in strip clubs, nightclubs or casinos.

vegansexual n.
A person who eats no meat, uses no animal-derived goods and prefers not to have sex with non-vegans.

Dr. Lou, please use all of the preceding words in one cohesive, intelligent sentence.

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The interesting thing about 2007′s new words and phrases on Grant Barrett’s list is my immediate gut reaction of utter annoyance.

Most of these cutesy words seem totally unnecessary and created for the sole purpose to show how clever someone is. Examples include Lolcat, a noun describing an odd or funny picture of a cat given a humorous and intentionally ungrammatical caption in large block letters on the internet. Is there really the need for a new word for this phenomena? I don’t think it’s so hard for the people into these things to email a friend, “I’ve enclosed a link some more funny cat pictures.” Vegansexual is another. It just isn’t all that onerous for those who eat no meat, use no animal-derived goods and prefer not to have sex with non-vegans just sit down with an omnivorous admirer and say, “You’re really great, but I only date other vegans. You’re a dirty animal killer”

Obviously our lives are filled with words and phrases that have been recently created or popularized. When things are commonplace or important concepts in our daily lives like Spam, Blog, or even Carbon-footprint , new words or phrases are organic and serve a purpose. I wouldn’t want to have a box in my email for “Unsolicited Penis Enlargement Ads.” On the other hand I don’t necessarily need a word for every single obscure phenomena in this culture.

Now, Stinky-Pinky, make it rain!

–Dr. Lou

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Ask Dr. Lou

December 15, 2007

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Dear Dr. Lou: With all the elves, reindeer and idle time he’s got on his lap, do you think Santa could be a furry?

At first I thought I didn’t know what a “furry” is. I thought a quick google search would clear things up. As usual, after a few key strokes I was knee deep in info on alternative lifestyles (luckily, not 2Girls1Cup alternative.)

So I learned from wordnavigator.com that the term “Furry” is slang for:

1. A member of furry fandom.
2. An animal character with human characteristics created by members of the furry fandom, usually loosely based on existing cartoon, mythological, or fantasy characters.

Well, then I got even more confused. How can Santa be a “Furry?” Santa is a wonderful, jolly, old elf who lives in the North Pole and makes toys all year-long, then delivers them to all of the world’s children (well, the nice Christian children, at least.) He is neither an animal, a cartoon, mythological, or a fantasy character.

He’s also certainly way too busy to be a member of furry fandom. Though, maybe I’m wrong. I guess there probably are some long nights up there in the North Pole when Santa could be hanging out with a bottle of wine, writing some Fan-Fic about Snarf from the Thundercats.

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